Marlou Arizala accused of abusing partner while in relationship
Marlou Arizala has been called out online by a woman who alleged that he abused her while they were in a relationship.
Arizala, who previously had the screen name Xander Ford, is known as a former member of parody boy band Hasht5.
Following the allegations in a Facebook post that has over 168,000 shares as of this writing, he said in a Facebook post today, June 18: “Sorry sa lahat (for everything) Ysah.”
Ysah Cabrejas took to Facebook yesterday, June 17 to make her accusations about how Arizala mistreated her.
BINIGAY KO LAHAT NG GUSTO MO PERO GINAGO MO KO. AYAW KO NA SANA MAG SALITA PERO SOBRA NA. Pa-victim ka msyado, msyado…
“BINIGAY KO LAHAT NG GUSTO MO PERO GINAGO MO KO. AYAW KO NA SANA [MAGSALITA] PERO SOBRA NA,” she said.
(I gave you everything but you fooled me. I didn’t want to speak, but it is too much already.)
“Pa-victim ka [masyado, masyado] kang sinungaling. Palagi mo sinusumbat [sa ‘kin] na kasikatan lang habol ko sa’yo. Hangal ka ba?” she wrote.
(You play the victim too much, you lie too much. You always scold me for wanting you all for fame. Are you stupid?)
She detailed what would happen whenever she refused to do what he wanted. “Kahit na meron ako at kahit na AYAW KO [‘pag] hindi ako pumayag magagalit ka kaya nga ako [nagkapasa] gawa mo [kasi] pinilit mo [‘ko]!!”
(Even if I had [my period] and even if I did not want to, when I refused you would get angry, which is why I had bruises because you forced me!!)
“[U]miiyak ako sa harap mo, [nagmamakaawa] ako [sa ‘yo], na tama na ayaw ko na pero [‘di] ka nakinig sabi mo BASTA MABUNTIS KITA KAHIT IWAN MO KO OKAY NA KO [DO’N] tanga ka ba?” she wrote.
(I was crying in front of you, begging you to stop, that I did not want it, but you didn’t listen. You said, “As long as I get you pregnant even if you leave me I’m OK with that.” Are you stupid?)
“Anong klaseng boyfriend ka? Hindi lang isang beses nangyari yon!”
(What kind of boyfriend are you? That happened more than once!)
She claimed that there was a time he got angry with her because she did not want to take a bath together. “Pinamukha mo lang na KATAWAN lang habol mo [sa ‘kin],” she said. (You made it look like it was just my body that you were after.)
She said too that although he returned her belongings, he has not given her back their cat Beauty. “Sasaktan mo lang [‘yan] kasi ganon ginawa mo [sa ‘kin]!” she said.
(You will just hurt it because that’s what you did to me!)
Her Facebook post contained screenshots of their messages, such as one wherein he said, “Inaamin ko [‘yung] pinilit kita,” (I admit that I forced you) and told her to keep quiet about it. One of the pictures showed her leg in scratches and bruises. She claimed too that he locked her out of her own Instagram account.
Prior to Cabrejas’s post, Arizala shared a picture on Facebook yesterday morning of his arm with gashes and the caption, “Isipin [n’yo] rin [‘yung] side ko (Think of my side too).”
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