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Ice Seguerra sees brighter side of dad’s illness: ‘It brought our family closer’

By: - Reporter
/ 09:13 AM August 05, 2020

MANILA, Philippines — Despite challenges brought by his father’s illness, singer Ice Seguerra saw the bright side of it all as his family developed a stronger bond and openness with each other.

“Siguro, if there’s one thing na magandang binigay sa amin ang cancer ni Daddy; it brought us closer as a family,” Seguerra said in an Instagram post Wednesday.

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(Maybe if there’s one good thing we got from daddy’s cancer was that it brought us closer us a family.)

It was in March when Seguerra first disclosed that his father was battling prostate cancer.

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“Kami kasi yung tipong pamilyang non-confrontational. Lahat dinadaan sa biro. But like all families, there were unspoken things and old wounds that need to be mended,” he added.

(We are the non-confrontational type of family. Everything is said in jest. But like all families, there were unspoken things and old wounds that need to be mended.)

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Siguro, if there's one thing na magandang binigay sa amin ang cancer ni Daddy; it brought us closer as a family. Kami kasi yung tipong pamliyang non confrontational. Lahat dinadaan sa biro. But like all familes, there were unspoken things and old wounds that need to be mended. At first, sobrang awkward. Tipong hindi mo alam kung papaano ka magsisimula. Pero nung nag tuloy-tuloy na ang paguusap, the words started flowing. Yes, may iyakan nagkalabasan nang mga mga sama ng loob sa isa't isa. We all took turns, my dad, mama, and my brother. After that, pinatawad namin ang isa't isa at ang mga sarili namin. Of course, hindi doon natapos ang lahat. As with anything na matagal na hindi napagusapan, may mga nauungkat pa ring sama ng loob but it's easier to address it. We became more open, expressive, more understanding of each other's pain and journey. We hug each other more, give kisses spontaneously. We are happier. It's amazing how the universe always gives us the opportunity to mend broken or strained relationships, you just have to be mindful and seize that opportunity when it presents itself to you. Compassion and love. Gratefulness and forgiveness. Freedom and happiness Nandiyan yan, araw-araw. Just be brave and grab that opportunity, while you still can. Have a great night. Love will always win.

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It was “awkward” to open up to each other at first, Seguerra admitted, but things changed after they talked more among themselves.

“Yes, may iyakan nagkalabasan nang mga sama ng loob sa isa’t isa. We all took turns, my dad, mama, and my brother. After that, pinatawad namin ang isa’t isa at ang mga sarili namin,” Seguerra said.

“We became more open, expressive, more understanding of each other’s pain and journey. We hug each other more, give kisses spontaneously. We are happier,” he went on.

Seguerra then shared his realization that an opportunity will come to “mend broken or strained relationships.”

“You just have to be mindful and seize that opportunity when it presents itself to you,” he said.

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