‘Parehas kaming wasak’: Kiray Celis opens up on being broken before meeting non-showbiz BF

Kiray Celis and boyfriend Stephan Estopia. Image: Twitter/@kiraycelis

Kiray Celis opened up to fans on how heartbroken she was when she first met her non-showbiz boyfriend Stephan Estopia, who turned out to have just gotten off a bad relationship as well.

The comedienne shared the story of how her boyfriend changed her perception of men for the better through, as seen on her Twitter thread last Tuesday, June 23.

“Nung nagkakilala kami, parehas kaming wasak. Ako pinagpalit. Siya niloko ng [paulit-ulit],” Celis recalled. (When we first met, we were both broken. I was replaced. He was made a fool again and again.)

Nung nagkakilala kami, parehas kaming wasak. Ako pinagpalit. Siya niloko ng paulit ulit. ‘A THREAD’ pic.twitter.com/bT0Mc495CA

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 23, 2020

“Nung panahon na yun, pare parehas na tingin ko sa mga lalaki. Lahat manloloko. Walang hindi. Pero nung nakilala kita, lahat yun nagbago. Hindi naman pala lahat pare pareho. Depende rin sa tao,” Celis addressed her boyfriend in the following tweet.

(Back then, I saw all men as cheaters. No one was exempted. But when I met you, everything changed. It turned out that not all men are the same. It depends on the person.)

Celis then talked about how Estopia also gave his trust to the wrong person, who made a fool out of him several times.

“Siya naman ilang beses na nagbigay ng tiwala. Pero napunta lang sa wala. Dahil hindi na pagkakamali ang kasalanang paulit ulit na ginagawa. Ang tawag dun pananamantala,” she said.

(He, meanwhile, gave his trust several times. But it was all for nothing. Because it is no longer just a mistake if someone does it again and again. That is called abuse.)

Siya naman ilang beses na nagbigay ng tiwala. Pero napunta lang sa wala. Dahil hindi na pagkakamali ang kasalanang paulit ulit na ginagawa. Ang tawag dun pananamantala. Wala kang awa sa taong walang ginawa kundi mahalin ka pero lagi mo lang binabalewala.

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 23, 2020

“Mga taong binuhos lahat, eh natapat sa mga taong hindi marunong makuntento at kahit anong gawin mo, hindi ka sapat. Na kahit kailan hindi ka magiging tama [sa kanila]. Kasi hahapin nila lahat ng kulang mo sa iba,” Celis further said.

(People who gave their all to those who do not know how to be content, and no matter what you do, you will never be enough for them. People who will never see you as the right one. Because they will always look for others who have what you lack.)

Dun namin napatunayan na kahit gaano mo kamahal ang isa tao, may hangganan pala. Magsasawa karin pala. Mapupuno karin pala..

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 23, 2020

“At dahil bilog ang mundo, pagkatapos naming masaktan at umiyak sa mga maling tao, yun pala yung tamang panahon para makilala mo yung taong swak para [sa ‘yo],” Celis said.

(And because the world is round, just after we got hurt and cried for the wrong people, it turned out to be the right time for us to meet the right person.)

The actress also told fans that after they meet the right person, he or she will eventually help them heal and will reciprocate their love.

Yung taong kagaya mo magmahal. Yung karapat dapat sa tiwala mo. Yung taong gagawin lahat, sumaya, ngumiti at tumawa ka lang ng totoo.

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 23, 2020

“Lahat ng lungkot mo may kapalit na sobrang saya. Lahat ng paghihirap mo, mapapalitan ng ginhawa. kasi nga nasa tamang tao ka na,” Celis noted.

(All your sorrows will be replaced with joy. All your sufferings will turn into comfort. All because you are finally with the right person.)

Porket napunta ka sa maling tao. Hindi ibig sabihin nun, Maling tao na ulit ang mapupuntahan mo. Lahat ng iyak mo, mapapalitan ng iyak sa sobrang tawa. Lahat ng lungkot mo may kapalit na sobrang saya. Lahat ng paghihirap mo, mapapalitan ng ginhawa. kasi nga nasa tamang tao ka na.

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 23, 2020

Celis also apologized to her social media followers for her and Estopia’s frequent posts about each other; she explained that they both deserve it after all they went through with their exes.

“Proud lang kami sa isa’t isa. Alam kong hindi pa kami kasal kaya wag papakasiguro. Pero galing kami sa relasyon na hindi proud [sa amin]. Na hindi man lang kami [maipagmalaki]. Kasi marami palang mga tinatago! HAHAHAHAHA! Deserved namin to!” she said in another tweet on the same day.

(We are just proud of each other. I know nothing is really sure for now as we are not yet married. But we both came from relationships with people who are not proud of us. People who could not be proud of us because they were hiding many things. [Laughter] We deserve this!)

Pagbigyan niyo na kamimagpost ng jowa ko. Proud lang kami sa isa’t isa. Alam kong hindi pa kami kasal kaya wag papakasiguro. Pero galing kami sa relasyon na hindi proud samin. Na hindi man lang kami maipag malaki. Kasi marami palang mga tinatago! HAHAHAHAHA! Deserved namin to! 😍

— Kiray Celis (@kiraycelis) June 24, 2020

Celis first introduced Estopia to the public back in December 2019, when she opened up to fans that she has finally felt what it is like to be truly loved. JB

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