MANILA, Philippines — As Valentine’s Day nears, “Bullied Husbands Club” founder Nico Bolzico shared how he deals with his feelings whenever his wife Solenn Heussaff talks to other men.
Bolzico posted via Instagram on Wednesday a photo of Heussaff showing off a ring captioned: “As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time.”
“In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy,” he said.
Bolzico admitted how he used to be a jealous person before meeting Heussaff and said, “I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes.”
He realized he was “a million times wrong” because “thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship.”
Bolzico added, “The truth is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn’t be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys.”
While it may be difficult to see his wife talking to another guy, Bolzico said it should not be a problem because “they should be able have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends.”
Bottomline is, Bolzico said, “If you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day!”
Bolzico ended his post with a funny disclaimer, “If by any means, what I write, say or even think, is not in line with my wife’s opinion, then my wife’s opinion should predominate and everything else was wrong.” /muf
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