Ellen Adarna bares new recordings of Derek Ramsay cursing, shouting at her

Ellen Adarna made new revelations as she shared recordings of her confrontations with Derek Ramsay from December 2021, which was just a month after their wedding.

The actress dropped more “resibo” (receipts) via her Instagram Stories on Wednesday, Nov. 19, which came after Ramsay publicly asserted that he “never cursed” at Adarna.

In one of the recordings, Ramsay can be heard raising his voice at Adarna during a conversation. The actress talked back at him for “always shouting,” which prompted the actor to further speak louder. Ramsay later lowered his voice as he told her, “Napakamanhid mo.” (You are very numb.)

In the next recording, Ramsay seemed to have gone more agitated while having an outburst of profanity. The clip, however, was cut because, as per Adarna, he mentioned names that she does not want to involve in their feud.

The couple further clashed, with Adarna explaining why she was quiet in a certain situation and with Ramsay saying the problem with the former is that for her, “everything is an object that can be replaced.”

“I wish you could look at yourself in the mirror and see how you are. You’re too cool, you’re the sh*t,” he continued, noting how Adarna had apparently been speaking ill of him to others.

“Grabe! Ang sarap ng pakiramdam! Ang taong mahal mo, walang masabing maganda tungkol sayo!” the actor added. (Wow! It feels good! The person you love has nothing good to say about you!)

At some point in the conversation, Ramsay also pointed out a seeming comparison Adarna made that apparently vexed him.

“Pareho pala kami, e p******na bakit mo ko pinakasalan?” he asked the actress. (If we’re the same, then why did you marry me?)

Adarna, in the caption in her posts, said there are “witnesses” who were present and who even tried to pacify Ramsay during the couple’s heated conversations.

Breaking the pattern

Adarna reminded her followers that while conflict is normal in a relationship, it should not involve cursing and shouting, and that respect should remain.

She further admitted that she can be difficult at times and that she understands it “can trigger people who are very confrontational.”

“And the reason I’m exposing this is simple. Behavior like this—cheating, psychological abuse, disrespect toward women should not be tolerated,” she continued. “Women deserve safety, honesty and respect, and calling this out is how we break the pattern and demand accountability.”

Adarna then disclosed that she and Ramsay’s exes, who allegedly had similar—for some, even “worse”—experiences with the actor, agreed that she will speak up on their behalf.

“They’ve actually endured worse than I have, and they gave me their full blessing to raise the banner for all of us. And told them, don’t worry, I got you girls,” she wrote.

Ramsay has yet to comment on Adarna’s new claims as of this writing. /edv