Humble bragging

Netizens are ranting about “humble bragging” online. The term “humblebrag” was coined by “Parks and Recreation” writer/producer Harris Wittels. It refers to a kind of post on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram that tells the world how great your life is, then downplays it in the guise of humility or self-deprecating humor. Or we can call it false modesty, too. There’s a thin line between sharing and showing off.

Perhaps we must keep in mind that, there are some things that are better left unposted.

Here are some celebs’ take on the issue:

Ryan Cayabyab

It could be a form of “Kulang sa Pansin” syndrome. It could also be a way of building confidence for introverts. But on social media, you are fair game. Friends will give you assurance, but others couldn’t care less. But those who are idle will have a field day scrolling. So much energy is wasted on social media which could be spent making other people’s lives better.

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Martin Nievera

Let’s make sure, before making accusations, that these people (who post about their meals and parties) are not expressing their gratitude to a sponsor or a friend. I think that’s okay, but to use social media to “silently” pat themselves on the back is a no-no for me. If you are humble, no need to brag.

Noel Cabangon

Humble bragging is an oxymoron. There is no such thing. It’s either you are proud or you would just acknowledge with gratitude if you are praised for your achievements.

Jim Paredes

SUZI Entrata-Abrera: Unfollow, if posts are annoying.

It is done when you have something you want to share, but don’t know how to share it without appearing boastful. I have done it. People expect celebrities’ lives to be thrilling. But what may seem extraordinary to many may be mundane to some.

Suzi Entrata-Abrera

If it’s a good friend who posted it, I’ll be happy for him or her. If it’s an acquaintance or if it’s too extravagant, I may find it unnecessary and insensitive. It seems I am subjective rather than objective on this issue. Bottom line is, if these posts are annoying, I can always unfollow. To each his own and if it makes them happy, so be it.

Wency Cornejo

I really don’t give it much thought. It’s their account so they have every right to put whatever they want there for as long as it’s not offensive to other people. It’s easy to block people whose posts you don’t want to see. As human beings, we have reached a point in our history (due in part to technological advances) where we have become too critical of other people but at the same time overly sensitive to criticism.

Jose Javier Reyes

“VOYEURISM is now matched by digital exhibitionism,” says Jose Javier Reyes.

I guess I’m guilty of that pleasure of posting where I am, what I’m eating, who I’m with and what I’m seeing. In this age of selfies where affirmation is measured by the number of likes and hits of your posts and shout outs, voyeurism is now matched by digital exhibitionism. It has inevitably become a way of life. Can I now post this on my Facebook page?

Kim Atienza

There is always a subtext in everything we post. It’s either “Look guys … I’m so happy I get to do this ” or “I’ve got the money to afford this,” “I love these people so much” or “Look, I hang with rich people.” Bragging can never be humble. We have to be careful about what we post.

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Witty chef

Chef and restaurateur Jonas Ng joins Lifestyle as he debuts his first cooking show, “Chef Next Door,” a program that is oozing with wit, humor, and sexiness.

It will showcase the expertise of chef Jonas, a 10-year veteran of the restaurant industry.

He will present realistic cooking obstacles and show how chefs overcome them with a healthy dose of science.

The program will also feature recipes that will prove that restaurant-quality food can be achieved at home.

“Chef Next Door” airs every Monday, 10 p.m.; Tuesday, 5:30 a.m., Wednesday, 5:30 p.m.; and Friday, 12 a.m. and 9:30 p.m.

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