Charice takes a huge step, with huge risks

CHARICE has opted to live an honest life.

NEW YORK—The news outlets in print, on television and online are abuzz with singer Charice’s most recent public announcement that she is a lesbian. I laud her for her courage in taking that step, and congratulate her for being true to herself, making no apologies for the person she truly is. Indeed, that is a huge step to take with huge risks attached, as she cannot control how other people will react to this latest development.

As intensely personal a step as this may be, her being an international celebrity magnifies the effect of her decision. It isn’t just her family that is affected but also her fans, her friends, every endorsement company that has taken her on as a spokesperson, and the TV, film and record producers who hire her as a talent.

There are gay actors and singers who opt to remain in the closet, coming out only to a select handful of friends. Busting out could very well involve a huge risk to a celebrity’s bottom line, affecting the quantity of the work that does arrive. But whose fault is that? Is our society so bigoted and prejudiced against homosexual men and women that there is such a high degree of fear of rejection and unemployment? That seems to be the case.

That makes Charice’s decision all the more important. She’s higher up the ranks compared to many of her contemporaries. She could’ve kept her mouth shut to preserve public perception, whatever that may be. But she didn’t. Risking everything, she chose to live an honest life.

Aiza Seguerra, in a tweet to Charice, said, “Ano man ang sabihin ng iba, masakit man at hindi maganda, lagi mong iisipin na ngayon, malaya ka na.” No one could have said it better.

AIZA Seguerra tells fellow singer to relish the freedom.

Charice, just remember, your true fans will always be there for you. The people who love you will be in your corner forever. I cannot wait to hear the music you will soon create.

Congratulations!

In 1991, I received a Theatre World Award for my Broadway debut in “Miss Saigon,” presented to me by my costar, Jonathan Pryce.

Last Monday I presented the same award to a fellow Filipino who is currently starring off-Broadway in the hit show “Here Lies Love,” Conrad Ricamora. He plays Ninoy Aquino.

Conrad, congratulations! It was such a thrill to present the award to you.

A little quiet

Now that my time in New York is coming to a close, I feel I have permission from the universe to reflect. My days have gone from jam-packed to serene, which means I can now enjoy the company of friends for a meal, a Broadway matinee (my nights are still booked for the remaining Café Carlyle performances until this Saturday), or a drink at a nearby watering hole.

It’s been an incredibly busy time … I remarked on Facebook that I was on a daily singing streak from May 14 to June 2, rehearsing during the day, then performing in the evening. I’m not complaining, as truly all of these things that have come my way are blessings. That said, it was a relief when my days of pulling double duty finally came to an end. It was certainly a test of my restraint, as I needed to take it easy in the day, to keep me strong for the evenings, when my voice was required to peak. My teachers taught me well, and I’ve been getting good quality sleep. Having friends in the audience every night has also been a source of inspiration and strength.

CHEERS! Conrad Ricamora as Ninoy Aquino in “Here Lies Love”

Thank you!

My husband and daughter have returned home in time for school opening (Nicole is now a first grader and we’ re all excited). It was amazing having them here; it made the days more special. They were my rock in this big city, and that enabled me to do my job well.

I’m extremely fortunate, when I think about it. I have a wonderful family (starting with my parents, siblings, cousins, in-laws) who have always been supportive; great friends who are behind me even if and when they don’t always understand the work I do; colleagues who absolutely “get it,” and for whom no explanations are necessary; and the most incredible fans this old girl can ask for.

So on this very quiet, very late night, I send the universe a huge “Thank you!” for the blessings of this life. As hectic as it gets, as overwhelmed as I may feel at times, thank you, truly.

After Japan comes “The Voice,” something I’m only too excited to start. Fellow coaches, I cannot wait to see you.